Deception, Dependency & Dread
By Michael Langone, Ph. D.
American Family Foundation
THE CONVERSION PROCESS
Farber, Harlow, & West (1957) coined the term "DDD syndrome" to describe the essence of
Korean war thought reform with prisoners of war: debility, dependency, and dread. Lifton (1961), who
also studied thought reform employed in Chinese universities, demonstrated that the process did not
require physical debilitation. Contemporary cultic groups, which do not have the power of the state at
their disposal, have more in common with this brand of thought reform than with the POW variety, in that
they rarely employ physical coercion. In order to control targets, they must rely on subterfuge and natural
areas of overlap between themselves and prospects. As with all Korean era thought reform programs
(those directed at civilians and at prisoners), however, contemporary cultic groups induce dependent states
to gain control over recruits and employ psychological (sometimes physical) punishment ("dread") to
maintain control. The process, in my view, can be briefly described by a modified "DDD syndrome":
deception, dependency, and dread.
Although the process here described is complex and varied, the following appears to occur in the
prototypical cult conversion:
- A vulnerable prospect encounters a cultic group.
- The group (leader[s]) deceptively presents itself as a benevolent authority that can improve the
prospect's well-being.
- The prospect responds positively, experiencing an increase in self-esteem and security, at least
some of which is in response to what could be considered "placebo" The prospect can now be
considered a "recruit".
- Through the use of "sharing" exercises, "confessions," and skillful individualized probing, the
group [leader(s)] assesses the recruit's strengths and weaknesses.
- Through testimonies of group members, the denigration of the group's "competitors" (e.g., other
religious groups, other therapists), the tactful accentuation of the recruit's shameful memories and
other weaknesses, and the gradual indoctrination of the recruit into a closed, nonfalsifiable belief
system, the group's superiority is affirmed as a fundamental assumption.
- Members' testimonies, positive reinforcement of the recruit's expressions of trust in the group,
discrete reminders about the recruit's weaknesses, and various forms of group pressure induce the
recruit to acknowledge that his/her future well-being depends upon adherence to the group's belief
system, more specifically its "change program."
- These same influence techniques are joined by a subtle undermining of the recruit's self-esteem
(e.g., by exaggerating the "sinfulness" of experiences the recruit is encouraged to "confess"), the
suppression or weakening of critical thinking through fatiguing activity, near-total control of the
recruit's time, trance-induction exercises (e.g., chanting), and the repetitive message that only
disaster results from not following the group's "change program." These manipulations induce the
recruit to declare allegiance to the group and to commit to change him/herself as directed by the
group. He or she can now be considered a convert embarking on a path of "purification,"
"enlightenment," "self-actualization," "higher consciousness," or whatever. The recruit's
dependency on the group is established and implicitly, if not explicitly, acknowledged. Moreover,
he/she has accepted the group's authority in defining what is true and good, within the convert's
heart and mind as well as in the world.
- The convert is next fully subjected to the unrealistically high expectations of the group. The
recruit's "potential" is "lovingly" affirmed, while members testify to the great heights they and
"heroic" models have scaled. The group's all-important mission, e.g., save the world, justifies its
all-consuming expectations.
- Because by definition the group is always right and "negative" thinking is unacceptable, the
convert's failures become totally his or her responsibility, while his or her doubts and criticisms are
suppressed (often with the aid of trance-inducing exercises such as meditation, speaking in tongues,
or chanting) or redefined as personal failures. The convert thus experiences increasing self-
alienation. The "pre-cult self" is rejected; doubts about the group are pushed out of consiousness;
the sense of failure generated by not measuring up to the group's expectations is bottled up inside.
The only possible adaptation is fragmentation and compartmentalization. It is not surprising, then,
that many clinicans consider dissociation to lie at the heart of cult-related distress and dysfunction
(Ash, 1985).
- The convert's self-alienation will tend to demand further psychological, if not physical, alienation
from the non-group world (especially family), information from which can threaten to upset
whatever dissociative equilibrium the convert establishes in an attempt to adjust to the consuming
and conflicting demands of the group. This alienation accentuates the convert's dependency on the
group.
- The group supports the convert's dissociative equilibrium by actively encouraging escalating
dependency, e.g., by exaggerating the convert's past "sins" and conflicts with family, by
denigrating outsiders, by positively reinforcing chanting or other "thought-stopping" activities, and
by providing and positively reinforcing ways in which the convert can find a valued role within
the group (e.g., work for a group-owned business, sell magazines on the street).
- The group strengthens the convert's growing dependency by threatening or inflicting punishment
whenever the convert or an outside force (e.g., a visit by a family member) disturbs the dissociative
equilibrium that enables him or her to function in a closed, nonfalsifiable system (the "dread" of
DDD). Punishment may sometimes by physical. Usually, however, the punishment is
psychological, sometimes even metaphysical. Certain fringe Christian groups, for example, can
at the command of the leadership immediately begin shunning someone singled out as being
"factious" or possessed of a "rebellious spirit." Many groups also threaten wavering converts with
punishments in the hereafter, for example, being "doomed to Hell." It should be remembered that
these threats and punishments occur within a context of induced dependency and psychological
alienation from the person's former support network. This fact makes them much more potent than
the garden-variety admonistions of traditional religous, such as "you will go to hell if you die with
mortal sin."
The result of this process, when carried to its consummation, is a person who proclaims great
happiness but hides great suffering. I have talked to many former cultists who, when they left their groups
and talked to other former members, were surprised to discover that many of their fellow members were
also smilingly unhappy, all thinking they were the only ones who felt miserable inside.